FinDom 101 with Integrity $

Integrity, Safety, Sustainability, & Creativity for FinDoms and FinSubs

Welcome to the world where fantasy and reality play. FinDomming or Financial Dominating is a time-tested, delicious way to relate to others in the real world of money. Doms of all types can get their needs and fantasies met with real money in exchange for pleasuring or ruining their FinSubs - not all of which needs to be sexual. Many FinDom educational resources focus exclusively on sexual and heteronormative practices, but there’s as many ways to relate to people as there are people! Let’s get a little creative and explore some basics for both FinDoms and FinSubs/Paypigs.

May this guide serve you in your journey to mutual financial satisfaction

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FinDoms

Safety for FinDoms

Rule: Build a trust container. You are a facilitator of pleasure and pain. You are responsible for enforcing the rules of the container that you and your Sub create together. How does your Sub want to feel? What do they NOT want to feel? Are you a good fit for each other? Don’t be desperate and just take any pig off the street. Trust containers are a collaborative process and require active, skilled practices in consent. If you need guidance, hire a consultant.

Rule: No services until the money is in the bank. This field is FULL of scammers who want something for nothing. Build trust first. It takes more time up front that you won’t get paid, but the patience and build up is hot.

Rule: Choose a method of receiving payment that feels safe for you. Paypal is prude. Cashapp and Venmo currently work better and gift cards are great. Token sites are often the most safe but Cash is always king. If they give you their financial logins